Alpha Allure

Your smile is the most important and easiest physiological change that you can make to give a good impression on others, especially women.  The results you get from doing something so simple will absolutely blow your mind.  This is why this is the first article on Alpha Allure. I can’t stress enough how easy and important the smile is.

Most people do not smile, so if you are in the habit of smiling you will automatically stand out from the crowd in a positive way.  If you ever want to attract a woman, being unique and different from “the herd” is one of the best ways to do it.  Smiling is a huge step in that direction.

When you smile, it conveys to other people you are happy and that your life is really good (even if it isn’t).  Smiling actually can change your biochemistry and make you happy.   No matter how bad a day you are having, you can force yourself to smile and your mood will instantly change.  There is the saying, “people want to be part of a party, not a pity” and if you are smiling all the time, people will think that your life is a party and they will naturally be attracted to you and your positive energy.  On the flip side, “misery loves company” so if you are smiling and happy, you can easily avoid the people who are angry, sad and have a negative energy.  This will help you to be discerning about what people you associate with.

Smiling can improve your health.  When you feel good emotionally (which is your body’s natural state) your body responds positively.  People who are always frowning, or sad, or angry usually are not in the best of health.  This creates stress in the body which leads to disease.  So smile and expect to live longer and better.

Trust is one of the most important things you need to establish with a woman.  If you don’t have trust, I don’t care how sexy you are, you won’t get anywhere with them.  Trust is huge to women.  So how can you start to establish trust without saying a word?  Smiling.  How’d you guess ?  When someone smiles it is much easier to trust them.  Would you trust a stranger who was staring angrily at you?  No!  So the opposite would have opposite results.

These are just a few of the benefits received from smiling.  If you begin to make smiling a habit amazing things will happen in your life, so I suggest you get to it.  Try it, right now!

Exercises:

1.  Start smiling everywhere you go.  EVERYWHERE WITHOUT FAIL.   To the mailbox, to the store, to the bank and especially in social settings like parties, nightlife etc.  Take notice of how many girls make eye contact with you and reciprocate a smile back to you.

2.  At home, look in the mirror and watch yourself smile and notice the way it affects your body and attitude.  Do you feel better?  Were a little more happy?  Start to become in tune to these subtle changes because it will benefit you later when we discuss the power of the mind.

3.  Make sure your smile is a subtle smile.  You just want a nice casual smile not a huge grin.  Smiling too big can make you look ridiculous, so easy does it.